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Meri mom house wife hai
brother business karte hai

father teacher
sister student

About Life Partner Preferences:

1. Maturity
This statement is not meant to echo
the ever-advised mantra that maturity
is important. Being “grown up” isn’t
merely a matter of not acting like a kid
anymore. It’s not about a boyfriend
who remembers to take out the trash
or a girlfriend who never runs late.
These qualities are nice, but to truly
grow up means making an active effort
to recognize and resolve negative
influences from our past. An ideal
partner is thus willing to reflect on his
or her history and is interested in
understanding how old events inform
current behaviors.
When people mature emotionally, they
are less likely to re-enact or project
past experiences onto their current
relationships. They develop a strong
sense of independence and autonomy,
having differentiated from destructive
influences from early in life. As they
evolve within themselves, they are
less likely to look for someone to
compensate for shortcomings and
weaknesses or to complete their
incompleteness. Instead, they’re
looking for someone to share life with
as equals and to appreciate
independently of themselves. Having