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I am someone that has lived through a lot of challenges and I have found ways to find humor in the darkest of times. Sometimes this can be hard for people to understand, but when you have a lot of bad people in your life - you learn to find humor in darkness otherwise you can't cope.
I have 2 sisters that I communicate with and a brother (I do not communicate with). My youngest sister is married with a child on the way and my middle sister is in a relationship with a nice young man but I am not sure if they are considering marriage (I am not pressuring them). I am the oldest & was in a very long, abusive relationship (15 years) that ended in 2018 when I realized that he was actively trying to kill me & make it look like suicide. I escaped and have been trying to find a real partner ever since but it has been unsucessful. I was married briefly in 2020, but it was not a good match. We still talk occasionally via text but it is not anything other than to make sure that the other is okay (no residual relationship).
My father has passed away in 2021 & my mother is still alive but I have no contact. I miss having the connection of family but not at the expense of my mental health and well-being.
I have been an educator for most of my adult life and I enjoy reading and writing. I teach History but also everything else in the social sciences (political science, sociology, criminal justice, educational foundations...). I love to cook and bake and am very into crafting - I love figuring out how to make something work!
I love children and animals. Currently since I live in an apartment, I have cats and love them dearly but really most animals feel comfortable around me. Small children often come up and talk to me as well - I am not exactly sure why but I must give off the same energy as one of my aunts that always could calm fussy children and large dogs (lol)
About Life Partner Preferences:
I am hoping to find someone that has a good sense of humor and is kind hearted. They must care about me and other humans as I am politically minded person that cares about caring for others (care for those that need care is a very important value to me)
I hope that you enjoy your work enough that you find it meaningful. I don't need to specify the field. I do hope that you respect me enough to share with me what you do as your intellectual peer because I can understand what you do if you explain - I do not want to be shut out.
As for family, I can't judge anyone's family since mine is so dysfunctional - I hope for my match to have a healthier family relationship but if not that is fine, let us establish new boundaries. If they have a healthy family relationship rejoice!